UNREQUITED LOVE (AKA) ONE-SIDED LOVE

LOVE:-   

           Love is a feeling of mixed emotion. It makes us fly, It makes us fall, It makes us feel butterflies in our stomach. According to the theory there are two kinds of love, Um...It is actually three => Double sided love, Single sided love and the newest originated species of love is self love. In this it is clear that one sided love creates the greatest impact in one's life. For example It gives more butterflies in stomach which leads to dysentery (ie) Baedhila povaan.

PURENESS OF ONE SIDED LOVE:-

             Like how love has three divisions, this one sided love is also categorised into two,

             •Enna solla pogiraai! 

             •Enenna Solraan paarunga!

              First category can be denoted as a devoted, dedicated and destructive one. The reason why I am mentioning the word "Destructive" is because this kind of one-sided love is effective in changing one's life into a heaven or a hell.

             It doesn't mean that one-sided love is only meant for boys. It is also for girls and You girls must realise that it's not a crime to be in one-sided love with someone. To prove the uniqueness of this category, Let's have a look at this deep lyrics,

 "KADHAL VALARTHEN KADHAL VALARTHEN UNMELA DHANNA NAANUM PULLA KADHAL VALARTHEN" 

        Do you know how deep he/she valathufies this kadhal? They deep roots this love even without knowing that their already valatha koonthal is ripping off from their head. Maybe this could sound funny or Make you grin but the people who are in one-sided love could relate.

          The second category is the "Enenna solraan parunga". This category throws a handkerchief wherever they see an empty seat. Think you can understand. These kind of people are found everywhere nowadays. They will be stalking, Flirting with everyone else and still says without any koocham that You are my Uyirr ….. BEEP! (censored). To be frank most boys/girls only fall for this second category of people. They get mesmerised with their honey coated words and later on feels like, "LOVE-U PICHIKICHU! LIFE-U PUTTUKUCHU". I can even say a subtle example to show you the biggest reality. It all starts with great pickup lines and stuffs and ends turning into a great sage writing break up quotes which the sage himself can't understand.

IMPACT:-

           One-sided love creates a huge impact on people's lives. For example movies like Sethu,Kutty,Idhayam,Moondram Pirai and all. The impact it creates can be defined deeply in a lyric, 

     "Kaadhal irukkum bayathinal dhaan, Kadavul boomiku varuvadhillai, Meeri avan boomi vandhal dhaadiyudan dhaan alaivaan veedhiyale".

        Most one-sided love gets rooted with the hope given by the opponent unintentionally. Just be clear with your actions, Perceptions and all ,then We all will live our life without any expectations.

"Unrequited love does not die; it's only beaten down to a secret place where it hides, curled and wounded. For some unfortunates, it turns bitter and mean, and those who come after pay the price for the hurt done by the one who came before.”