Does making someone suffer in solitude gives happiness??

ACTUAL FACT:-

              We all love being together with friends. None of us hate to be with a company. We find people with the same mentality as we have. Most friendships happen when we both have the same enemy.

FACT THAT WE FAIL TO NOTICE:-

               Sometimes we search for something very sincerely and after a certain time, we get tired of searching for it. We fail to notice that what we are searching for is just in front of us. We all have been to school and college. Let me take you all back to that period of time and stir up your nostalgia. You were so happy with your gang, gossiping and having great fun.

              There is a matter which is common in all our school and college life. We all have that one person in our class to whom we hardly spoke, but has a great hatred and find them irksome. We all make fun of that person behind their face, sometimes we humiliate them and even sometimes we gossip about them beyond the limit. Have you ever thought of yourself being in their situation?

WHAT IF YOU FACE SUCH IGNORANCE??

                Consider there are 31 students in your class. Teacher wants the students to get a  bit refreshed. So,the teacher asks the 31 students to pair to play a minigame. You all are overwhelmed with happiness and have made 15 pairs. There is only one student left behind. So the teacher asks him/her to join any of your pairs. Noone is ready to take him/her into their pair. Just think, how bad it feels standing in front of the people who you know that they are hating you for no reason. Being ignored is as painful as hell. Whenever we do such things to others, we must think of ourselves in their situation and we will definitely have a self realisation.

WHAT IS THE REASON FOR US TO HATE PEOPLE WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING THEIR ESSENCE ?

               Ignored persons are often identified as hyper active. They excel in every field which makes others jealous and also it causes a feeling of insecurity or incapability to others. We all make our own assumption and never try to reassure it. We are not willing to make any effort from our side to understand that person. Even if that particular person tries to have a conversation, we walk off.

NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER:-

                 These ignored persons are a real gem. The problem is in our eyes and in the way we see that person. These people are the strongest as they face and handle a storm of negativity in the period of time in which they must be mingling and giggling with their friends. 

                 

             

              Being in solitude gives more pain than a heartbreak. Even heartbreak can be overcome in a few days, months or years. The action we do can also make the person sink into depression. Remember,being ignored is worse than anything else.

      "Real pain is felt in ignorance"

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